Thursday, August 02, 2007

Shattered (from Strength for the Journey)

"The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18

If you had a chance to meet her, you would agree that the name we have affectionately given her really fits. She has a fantastic command of the world around her and a charming personality that makes you want to give her what she wants. And, of course, since “Cate the Great” is one of our grandchildren, my wife Martie and I delight in doing just that. After all, it’s a grandparents’ prerogative!

Recently Martie hosted four of our granddaughters for a special weekend tea party. Fancy invitations were sent, lacy décor was purchased, and I was banned from the proceedings. Cate the Great and her mother carefully chose an elegant wardrobe for the occasion, Cate’s favorite “princess” costume.

Cate came all the way from her home in Michigan with great anticipation of a regal entrance as “princess of the day” into the cultured society of her fellow cousins. It was to be her finest moment. Until we discovered that the dress had been left behind at her parents. Disaster! Cate’s world, as she knew it, was shattered. All her hopes, dreams, and aspirations to grandeur were left behind with the princess dress. She didn’t feel like Cate the Great anymore.

Martie could have launched into a timely exposition of how, in the bigger picture of real life, it was not all that big of a deal and that Cate should stop crying and realize that she would get over it and someday laugh at this little wrinkle in her world. Instead, Martie quickly proceeded to the nearest specialty store with crying Cate in tow to find another princess costume. Martie not only rescued the tea party, but helped rebuild Cate’s shattered little world.

We shouldn’t be surprised when God does the same thing for us. He “is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). In His grace, He comes alongside whenever your world becomes shattered—whether it’s shattered by your own fears and anxieties, or by disappointing events beyond your control. He could, of course, lecture you about the bigger picture of eternity and tell you to buck up and move on, but God compassionately comes alongside, allows you free access to His throne room in prayer, and listens to every one of your anxious thoughts (Philippians 4:6-8). Being the perfect Father, He never spoils or pampers, but lovingly offers every good and perfect gift (James 1:17). He is there, right now, waiting to rebuild and restore your broken world.

Your Journey . . .

Think of a time when you felt like your world was shattered. Did a friend or family member come alongside to help? Did you look to God for hope and help in the situation? Looking back on it, how is your perspective different now than it was then?

Is your life is shattered now? David faced great seasons of devastating disappointments and consistently resolved them with hope in God’s merciful and gracious willingness to be there for Him in times of crisis. Thoughtfully read Psalms 13, 27, 28, and 42, and take them all personally!

Do you know someone who is currently experiencing a shattered situation? What can you do to help restore their shattered world today?

Put this verse in your head and heart for the next time your life is shattered. “But I trust in your unfailing love; my heart rejoices in your salvation” (Psalm 13:5).

6 comments:

R said...

How are you Andrew? Indeed the Lord is our strength and our rescuer, though often in the strife of our lives we do not see. Be lifted up!

Anonymous said...

hi bro, indeed when the world as we know it comes to an end we will all be gathered into the loving father's hand. than we will look back and see how our father in heaven work out every "issues" with love and care that actually no good things was lacking while on this earthly journey we track.

Foo family

Anonymous said...

hello alex kau foo

just wanted you to know you're in many of our thoughts.
We admire your strength... and trust that you will always know that there are many of us far and near who think of you often with love.

jo-ann

Anonymous said...

Dear Alex,

I hope you received our card which we sent to your dad's. We think of you all the time but I must admit that I do not check the blog as regularly now.

If you want to get away, you are always welcome to come to Melbourne. You may have to share a room with one of the boys but we are happy to have you.

Only time will heal the pain but not the memories and the love. Thank God for the times you have had and similarly, we are all so blessed to have known Joanne. The Good Food Show here always reminds me of her!

I smiled when I read about you being at the soccer match between Australia & Spore. I was watching it as well on TV and if I had known you were there, I would have looked out for you all.

Anyway, remember to take care of yourself!

Lots of love,
Tina & the Warhurst clan

Anonymous said...

22 Sep: Thank you, dear God, for sending Jo into our lives years ago on this special day. We will keep her close to our hearts today, everyday, forever & ever.

Until we meet again, little sis~

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry that Jo died.

I feel sad for yhou.

Who is taking care of the kids ?

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